Abner Sorrows

Abner "Jerry" Sorrows Jr., a spirited soul and a cherished family man, passed away peacefully on February 8, 2025, in Little Rock, Arkansas. Born on November 1, 1955, in Hazen, Arkansas, Abner's journey through life was marked by a fervent passion for both his career and family, making his departure a profound loss to all who knew and loved him. A respected jockey for the majority of his career, Abner became a prominent figure at Oaklawn in Hot Springs, Arkansas, and graced many other racetracks with his indomitable spirit and unwavering dedication. His prowess in the saddle was matched only by his zest for life, bringing joy and excitement to those fortunate enough to be in his presence.

Beyond the racetracks, Abner was a devoted husband to his beloved wife, Denise Sorrows. Together, they reveled in the beauty of nature, frequently hiking at Goodenow Grove in Illinois and embracing the outdoors with their children every weekend. Their affinity for adventure was also evident in their shared delight for attending air shows in Chicago, where the thrill of flight mirrored Abner's own exuberant spirit. Abner’s character was as vibrant as his passions. With a larger-than-life personality, he was known for his animated storytelling and the warmth he summoned to gatherings, always finding reason to bring friends and family together. He had an overwhelming desire to see everyone happy, famously asserting, "I know what I'm talking about." True to this belief, he defined success not by accolades or wealth, but by the simple joy of happiness that filled his home.

His education was humble, having graduated from North East High School in 1974, yet he possessed a formidable common sense and instinct that guided him through life. Abner was a wild and compassionate man, whose unwavering toughness belied his small stature. His mother would often recount the stress of his spirited ways, humorously noting that she had gray hair by her early twenties as a result. At the heart of Abner’s life were his family and proudest accomplishments: a close-knit clan that thrived under his hands-on parenting. He was particularly proud of his enduring marriage with Denise, celebrating over 31 years of love and companionship that served as a testament to their deep bond.

Abner leaves behind a loving family that includes his wife, Denise; daughter, Keely (Edgar); son, Austin (Rachel); brothers, Steve, Ricky (Bea), Lance (Linda), and Jimmy (Susan); sister, Dawanna; and granddaughter, Raelynn Morales. He is also survived by his mother, Velma Sorrows. His departure leaves a void that echoes in the hearts of those who knew him.

He was preceded in death by his father, Abner Sorrows Sr.; daughter, Abby Sorrows; and sister, Denise Patterson. Their memories will forever intertwine with Abner, who was a steadfast reflection of love and joy.

A visitation to honor Abner will be held on February 11, 2025, from 4:30 PM to 8:30 PM at Smith Family Funeral Home in North Little Rock, Arkansas. His funeral service will take place the following day, February 12, 2025, at 11:00 AM at St. Patrick's Catholic Church, also in North Little Rock.

In the tapestry of life, Abner Sorrows Jr. was a vibrant thread, woven with the essence of joy, love, and adventure. He will be profoundly missed, yet his legacy of happiness will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to call him friend or family.